Long distance relationship is not an easy thing to do. Many people can't maintain because they lose by distance. Long distance is kind of examination for both of us. It is the test how much love between both of us. As you know that I have just visited boyfriend which is having further studies in Belfast, UK. Love have to sacrificed almost everything. You knew it I know.
1. Plan a visit to his/her place
Being studied in oversea is such a boring thing. He/she has not much friend. I mean close friend. He can't even share his sadness or happiness to so called close friend. He is boring about what he had in oversea. He needs you. Ya. I know my boyfriend need me wherever he go. He need love and caring. So I visited him for 2 months time! Such a long holiday and long visit! Many of his friend asking why I came here for so long time?! The reason was simple, because I came here for accompany my beloved and that it. Don't ask about why. We have been together for 5 and a half years, we knew what each other needs. He need my accompany. So I just stay there for him. We cooked together, washed plate together even baked together! Hahaha~ Plan a vist to his place you will explore more about his new life. How he survived in oversea without any chinese food. Without any Ipoh Foooooood..haha. Evil me!
2. Cooked or Share what you have eat today With Him/Her
I cooked for him even I really don't know how to cook. I just like a "shi lai" (means housewife) cooked lunch or dinner for him just to wait him come back and eat. In UK, I just don't border anything about how to become a "shi lai" or already become a housewife. All I know is I want to cook a nice lunch for him. Although I know I failed to cook a nice dishes. He definitely will appreciate it. Being long distance relationship, you can just share what you have for you breakfast, lunch or dinner. This is a things to ensure both of you are communicated well.
3. Share everything to him
Boyfriend or girlfriend are your everything if you want he/she to be you future spouse. I share almost everything to boyfriend cause we have no secret. I don't like to hide something behind because it is difficult for me to hide something inside my heart. and I want to share everything with him. Being long distance relationship communication is very important. You can't touch he/she but actually he wanted to know all about your revent lifestyle. Who you meet and how are you recently. It is to ensure both of you are still stay close together. Being long distance relationship, we have no choice sometimes. We just can try our best to maintain a relationship.
4. Surprise him/her with a LOVE letter
To be romantic is an easy thing to do. Just use little of time to write love letter to him/her. He will be so happy when he received your letter. The stamp are quite cheap, not to worry that. Just a few word will be ok. Once he saw your letter, he definitely will make you a call. So lovely right? Being long distance relationship, we can't meet, we can't dating and we can't hold our hand. All we can do is do something that other people don't do. This is to stable up your relationship.
5. He/She definitely is your desired MR/Mrs Right
Being maintain a long distance relationship you must have a very stable relationship before he/she go oversea for further studies. If your relationship are unstable or not so stable, you definitely will not maintain this relationship. As 范玮琪说：因为幸福没有捷径，只有经营 means love do not have short cut, you have to maintain together, stay strong together.
Boyfriend have to be in UK for another two years. So what a long long distance relationship are we. We believe we can maintained a long distance relationship. Why you not?!
I'm quite sad actually, I planned to celebrate boyfriend's birthday in UK. Due to we have to travel here and there. I'm not feeling well and boyfriend too! So I just write a love birthday card for him. Unfortunately he cried! I made him cry for the first time in-front of me. He said, the best present for his life was I came here for 2 months. I never know and never expect that I came here for 2 month he will be so happy and excited. We are sweeter than before. Plan a visit to his place, you will know more about him yourself.
That's all for today sharing! Xoxo.
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