How To Maintain A Long Distance Relationship

Hello there! Today I'm going to blog about how to maintain long distance relationship? Long distance? Actually long distance is not a problem. IF you have trusted your bf or gf and love him or her more than yourself. Well, I admit that I love him more than myself and even love him more than he love me (I know he will be saying, who said?! I also love you very much one k) yaya. He love me more because I'm his first love (=_=) maybe put it that way. I'm the first girl he love in his whole life (except his mom) haha~

Actually what does it mean by long distance? Hmm. I just chat to my ex-tutorial classmate in secondary school last month, he said he and his gf broke because of long distance problem. So I asked him, what do you mean by long distance? He said, Kuala Lumpur and Seremban. Errrrr.. Then i answer, how about me? UK and Malaysia? Is this only called long distance?? Why I can maintain you cant?! Distance is not a problem IF you love her sososososososo much and trusted her. And he said~ ya, maybe I don't so love her sososo much (T_T).. Alright alright~ just want to share with you guys, how to maintain a long distance relationship. It might be useful to you, but it is really works on my relationship~

A long distance relationship have to keep communicate with each other. Nowadays we have Skype, Facebook, whatsapp and etc~ so there is no excuse why having a comminication barrier there because have no see each other everyday or every week. I have not see bf for around half a years~ ya. Half year already~ Means that I do not touch my boyfie's hand and face for half years already. I don't know how can I make it possible @.@ . Time flies~

Another things is your must trust your boyfie~ I know sometime we can't over trust the boys~ because boys always don't reply the message and we don't know what he is actually doing~ but for me there are only one or two reason why boyfie are not replying message. One of the reason is he was PLAYING DOTA2! (=_=) ermmmm.. Dota really nice to play ha? I always ask boyfie this question. And I said to him, what if one fine day I deleted your Dota game?? And he answer me..... I install again Lo..errrr... You trying to make fun with me? Nvm~ I just plug out the wifi~ haha~ Ya I just have so naughty attitude with him. And he also get use of it~Maybe I have to said it in another way, I actually quite enjoy while seeing him playing his Dota game. Because I will see his expression like "aiyo","why like that one", "don't kacau don't kacau" and etc. haha~ actually quite cute :P

Next is did something that make him surprise. For example, post him a birthday card. I have posted the first birthday card to him~ this is my first time to post birthday card to him. Unexpectedly he is very excited and keep looking at the card just like a kid. Lol~ ya. He still a Big kid for me and I love it! Hehe~ you may DIY some cards or diary to him~ the reason behind is actually want tell him although you are busying with work or studies but you still wasting your time to do the DIY things. He will be very impressed~ 

Ya~ I'm so envy with all the couple that can meet each other everyday~ or couple aka housemate or classmate. But we have to think the other way, long distance relationship also have benefit of it~ at least no body are controlling each other. You can do whatever you like to do~ for example like me~ I can shopping alone. I can go whatever place I like to go, enter whatever shop I want to enter without anybody else are waiting me outside the shop. For example cosmetics shop? Hahaha~

Besides, you have to stay focus on your studies or your work. Because it helps you to put aside your envy for other couple. They said when you focus on "something", you will realize that time are pass really fast! For me, I have focus on all my assignments, drama, Instagram and also blog. So, half years gone like a rocket~ have to wait another half years boyfie only come back to malaysia. So I have to find "something" to focus. Maybe I can focus on blogging?! 

Another thing is CONTROL!! Who say long distance can't control?! Girls always like to control their boyfie. But girls, don't over control boys. Because boys don't like their gf over control them. What does I mean by over control? It means that CONTROL EVERYTHING! So? How to control boyfie if it is long distance? CHECK HIS FACEBOOK MESSAGE! That is the only way we can control. But not to check his Facebook message too often. He might realize that you are checking on him. Just log in to their Facebook if you have nothing else to do. (Ya I know now all the boys start to hate me already!!) but I have no choice. Being a girlfriend you have to make sure that boyfie still love me like last time (so I really have to do that!) and surprisingly boyfie are not angry and he asked me, got things to see meh? (=_=) maybe he already know that I everytime check on him? So he not dare to chat with girls in Facebook?? Or?? He is a gay? Always chat with the boys. Lol!!! This is how I imagine when I look at his inbox.

That's all I want to share with you guys. Hope it might help you in your long distance relationship! And lastly please keep in mind, trust your boyfie or girlfriend. If he take for granted that know you have trusted him so much and try to cheat you. Just leave him alone ~.~. A true man do not cheat his girlfriend no matter what. 

That's all for today!! Xoxo